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Being a Man: A Guide to the New Masculinity
by Ph.D. Matthew McKay, Patrick Fanning (Contributor)

Being a Man: A Guide to the New Masculinity by Matthew, Ph.D. McKay, Patrick Fanning (Contributor)

An inspirational guide to shaping a man's life skills addresses such issues as controlling anger, understanding gender differences, enjoying responsible sex, making and keeping male friends, and other topics.


 
 
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Dealing with Your Anger: Self-Help Solutions for Men
by Frank Donovan, Allan Creighton

Dealing with Your Anger: Self-Help Solutions for Men by Frank Donovan, Allan Creighton

Book Description from Amazon.com: This book is for men whose anger is a serious problem for themselves and others. The author presents techniques and case studies to teach men how to control their anger, how to remove the risk of violence, and how to accept responsibility for managing their anger. A practical guide to preventing violence by healing the pain and fear that fuel it.



Stories of Manhood: Journeys into the Hidden Hearts of Men
by Steve Biddulph (Editor), et al

Stories of Manhood: Journeys into the Hidden Hearts of Men by Steve Biddulph (Editor), et al

Book Description from Amazon.com: By turns powerful, heartbreaking, wise, and funny, these essays and other works of nonfiction break down the narrow stereotypes associated with manhood. Featured is writing from Peter Carey, Bill Bryson, Scott Adams, Nancy Lerner, Mohammed Khadra, Val Maslen, Simon Carr, J. J. Bell, David Quammen, and Alden Nowlan, among others. The wide variety of perspectives include Dilbert's view on why men really don't rule the world, a widowed father learning to show his love to his sons, a teacher explaining why she loves teaching boys, a man describing his abuse in a church school, a son nursing his father on an isolated island, and Bill Bryson expressing his anger about sports.



Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse
by Michael Paymar

Violent No More: Helping Men End Domestic Abuse by Michael Paymar

Book Description from Amazon: The author guides readers through the process of recognizing abusive behaviors, taking responsibility for them, and learning to express anger without violence. This new edition includes updated resources, additional exercises, and guidelines for men of different cultural and ethnic backgrounds.



The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond
by Patricia Evans

The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond by Patricia Evans

Book Description from Amazon: Are you now, or have you ever been, in relationships with family, friends, or mates who have been verbally abusive? Is your happiness with someone you love continually threatened by interactions that continually undermine your self-esteem? Do you feel trapped in a relationship that keeps decaying in a downward spiral of overt or passive-aggressive abuse? If so, this book could be your life raft, either carrying you toward repair of the existing relationship or the effects of past relationships or offering liberation from your current confusion. Its practical approach can help clear your head and possibly change your life. The only criticism that I and other readers have is that the author assumes verbal abuse is almost always directed by males toward females, which, in my experience and that of others I know, is not necessarily the case. Highly Recommended.



Man to Man: A Guide for Men in Abusive Relationships
by Edward W. Gondolf, David M. Russell (January 1994)



Relationships

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships
by J Gray

Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love
by J Gray



Parenting

Every Parent: A Positive Approach to Children's Behavior
by M R Sanders

Toddler Taming
by Dr. Christopher Green

Raising Boys: Why Boys Are Different-And How to Help Them Become Happy and Well-Balanced Men
by Steve Biddulph

Raising Boys: Why Boys Are Different-And How to Help Them Become Happy and Well-Balanced Men by Steve Biddulph

From Publishers Weekly Australian family therapist Biddulph (Manhood) joins the chorus of counselors calling for a focused, supportive approach to parenting boys. Citing such gender specific risks facing boys as a higher percentage of learning disabilities to greater threats of violence and suicide, Biddulph maps out parenting strategies for three distinct stages of growth, from birth to six years, from six to 14, and from 14 to adult.



Getting on with Your Teenagers
by Bob Montgomery, Laurel Morris

Dare to Discipline
by James C. Dobson

The Hidden Handicap: How to Help Children Who Suffer from Dyslexia, Hyperactivity and Learning Difficulties
by Gordon Serfontein



Personal Well-being

Living With It: A Survivor's Guide to Panic Attacks
by Bev Aisbett

Living With It: A Survivor's Guide to Panic Attacks by Bev Aisbett

Synopsis: This guide to coping with and surviving panic syndrome is by someone who has done the same. Approximately five percent of the population faces the dread of panic attacks. With the aid of her cartoons, Bev Aisbett tells readers how panic disorders develop, and covers topics such as "Changing negative thoughts" and "Seeking professional help". The book provides reassurance and comfort for sufferers of this condition, and is an alternative to the more clinical, matter-of-fact leaflets and brochures available. Bev Aisbett is the author of "Purrsonalities: Life With Your Cat" and "Muttmobiles".



Breaking the Patterns of Depression
by Michael D. Yapko

Breaking the Patterns of Depression by Michael D. Yapko

Twenty to thirty million Americans suffer from some form of diagnosable depression, and their ranks are growing. Psychologist Michael D. Yapko explains that in order to find relief, more than the current episode of depression must be examined. In Breaking the Patterns of Depression, he presents skills that enable readers to understand and ultimately avert depression's recurring cycles. Focusing on future prevention as well as initial treatment, the book includes over one hundred structured activities to help sufferers learn the skills necessary to become and remain depression-free.



Overcoming the Myth of Self-Worth:
Reason and Fallacy in What You Say to Yourself

by Richard L. Franklin

Overcoming the Myth of Self-Worth: Reason and Fallacy in What You Say to Yourself by Richard L. Franklin

Reviewer: A reader from Villa Park, Illinois: This is an outstanding book, which teaches that how you feel results from what you think. This is the essence of the rational-emotive/cognitive approach to psychology. It teaches how you make yourself afraid/anxious, depressed/worthless, or angry based on how your mind inteprets your environment (or from spontaneous thoughts). It does all this while also being easy to read and grasp. It has delightfully humorous illustrations. (I laughed out loud at the picture of the man being tortured by disco music.) There is also a chapter on the fallacy of asking "What is my purpose in life?" As the author explains, we each create our own purpose. But the main fallacy the book focusses on is the self-worth fallacy, which causes untold suffering to millions.





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Information Circular 43: Men's health in Queensland
[Queensland Health]
Summarises the state of men's health in Queensland (male morbidity and mortality; men's health issues; health status differentials with urban/rural and socio-economic status; risk factors for preventable disease; and health status of target groups). May 1996

When marriages break down, it's often men who hurt the most
[Multicultural Health Communication Service (NSW)]
Explores the reasons why some men have serious problems dealing with separation and divorce, and how the right support can help them cope better. Aug 1999

Moving forward in men's health
[NSW Department of Health]
It has only been in recent years that inequalities in health outcomes for men have received attention and gender-based issues examined for potential solutions. This document brings together many of the facts and figures relating to men's health and presents an analysis of the many factors impacting on it. Apr 2000

Men and mental health
[National Health and Medical Research Council (NHMRC)]
The report looks at male mental health from several angles, such as, factors affecting male mental health & the effects of men's mental health on others. Themes include childhood mental health problems, suicide, alcohol and drug abuse and anti-social behavior. Jan 1996



Interesting Fathering Facts

There is no such thing as a fatherless child.

In a child who has not felt some form of masculine nurture, the hunger for a paternal presence can be insatiable.

Appetites tend to serve the survival and well being of the infant. The child's hunger for a father is no different.

Children who grow up with a father tend to receive greater encouragement to actively solve physical and intellectual challenges.

Studies have found that the more fathers participate in bathing, feeding and physically caring for their babies, the more socially responsive the babies' become.

With the presence of a father, babies start to learn about comings and goings, transitions, separations, loving, non-maternal love and nurturing.

The father is a perfect source for helping his child differentiate one's own self from one's own mother.

Children raised primarily by men have been found to be active, vigorous, robust, competent and thriving infants.

The above facts have been taken from the following article:

Kyle D. Pruett, M.D. How men and children affect each other's development, Yale Child Study Centre, New Haven, Conneticut.

 
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